Thanks, she's better but will need a very long recovery
OK, sorry my bad, I didn't see the
WHERE name='notification_email' part.
But, anyway, I'm going to get mad.
I tried to change it again in Discourse's console, this time it stocked. But where I tried a test mail, the reply_to was again "email@example.com"
So I went half way through Marcos' procedure with
bitnami_discourse=> SELECT value FROM site_settings WHERE name='notification_email';
I restarted the whole thing with
sudo /opt/bitnami/ctlscript.sh restart and tried a new test mail that came with the same bad reply_to.
I'm temporarily using Gmail as SMTP (because even if the forum is out of bootstrap, it's calm and doesn't send more than 50 mail/d) and I didn't set any SPF or DKIM yet.
Should I switch to production SMTP first? (kinda tricky: no server on firstname.lastname@example.org that is a redirection, but a pro server on another domain, I thought I could mask with the Discourse settings)
Do the anti-spam settings count?
How to remove a row in psql?
Thanks again, Cheers!